Respite Care | June 11, 2024
When is it time to consider respite care? | Respite care is not self-indulgent. It’s a necessity. Caring for an older or ill family member can be hugely rewarding and bring you closer – but being consumed by it will drain you physically and emotionally, and eventually cause burnout.
That’s why caregivers need to seek occasional respite from their responsibilities, whether for a few hours a week to run personal errands – or longer to take a much-needed vacation. Respite care offers a chance to de-stress, restore physical and mental energy, and establish a balanced life.
Fast Fact
In a study, 60% of family caregivers, ages 19-64, reported “fair or poor” health and one or more chronic conditions or disabilities, compared with only 33%
of non-caregivers.
Respite care for loved ones provides short-term breaks for caregivers, ensuring the well-being of the caregiver and the client. After all, you want to be at your very best, both physically and mentally.
Take a walk, read a book, browse the internet, visit an art gallery or museum, listen to music – whatever brings joy and a sense of calm.
Escaping the day-to-day of caregiving can help you relax, bring you a new perspective on the situation, and give you a chance to clear your head to come up with new solutions to problems or concerns.
As a caregiver, you must remember that you have the right to enjoy life. You also have no reason to feel guilty.
Caregivers are individuals who need to live their lives and keep a firm grip on their own identity.
Don’t be isolated or feel alone. Take time to engage with friends, family, and co-workers by sharing meals, conversations, and experiences.
Keep your loved one informed when planning for time off from your caregiving duties. Involve your loved ones to decide how long you will be away, and who will fill in for you when you’re gone. Express how they will benefit from your relaxed and refreshed state. Reinforce the idea that they will also benefit from socializing with other people.
The National Family Caregivers Association completed a survey that showed some often refuse that their caregiver role is separate from their role as a parent or spouse. The survey found that a shift in this attitude impacts work/life balance.
Decide what care is necessary in your absence. Determine what skills are needed to take care of your loved one.
Use a calendar to organize and plan for assistance, and don’t forget to schedule time for yourself. Schedule some respite time and indicate how you plan to use it.
Once you’ve decided on having respite relief, find a place for yourself. You shouldn’t have to leave the house to spend time relaxing or with hobbies.
Bottling up your emotions takes a toll on your psyche and your health. Share feelings of frustration with friends and family. Seek support from others who are in a similar situation. Talk with a professional counsellor, or join a caregiver support group.
Accept that you can’t do everything, and resist the urge to take on more than you can handle. If someone asks you to do something you cannot do, be honest and explain why you can’t – and don’t feel bad about it.
Do your best not to dwell on the negative. Hold a family meeting or call a senior care mediator to resolve conflicts with siblings and relatives. Remember to be proud of all you are doing, and focus on the rewards of caring for someone you love.
Respite care isn’t about indulgence; it’s a vital necessity. While caring for an older or ill family member can be deeply rewarding and strengthen bonds, becoming consumed by it can take a toll on your physical and emotional well-being, leading to eventual burnout.
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AARP. Caregiving Resource Center. “What Is Respite Care? A Break for the Caregiver.” Web. 2016.
AgingCare.com. “The Importance of Respite Care”. Web. 2016.
The Commonwealth Fund. “A Look at Working-Age Caregivers’ Roles, Health Concerns, and Need for Support” by Alice Ho, Sara R. Collins, Karen Davis, and Michelle M. Doty. Whitepaper. Web. 2016.
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